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Big Man, Tiny Habits: Your Vote Means More Than You Can Imagine

More than 100 million Americans did not vote in the last election.

Let that soak in for a moment.

It goes without saying we’re living through unprecedented days, but anywhere you turn people say it anyway. With so many things happening all at once — ongoing, incoming, every day something unheard of — it couldn’t possibly all be a coincidence, could it?

The short answer — no, not a chance. Not unless the Big Guy upstairs lost a major bet with Mother Nature and the devil himself.

Have you ever had a number of weighty life decisions blowing in the wind, hoping time would take care of them for you? Maybe work was changing, a living situation was uprooting or any number of existential dilemmas that could come crashing through the wall at any moment. You hoped they might naturally resolve themselves with a bit of apathy and a couple of blind eyes. But our inability to adapt and take action, however, allows all the chickens to come home to roost, which might’ve felt manageable until all the cows came, too. If you’re not up on our farm animal analogies, it’s a damn mess.

That’s what we’re living in collectively, only the problems we face are not so easily fixed overnight. We’re staring down the barrel of a long-overdue reckoning for collective past sins that have congregated like skeletons in a walk-in closet and came traipsing out like a year-long Day of the Dead parade of horrors. A climate crisis coming to life, peaking systemic racism, a deadly viral pandemic — just to lead off the list — with nobody in charge to calm the herd and guide us to safety. Instead of corralling them back inside or burying them in the backyard as we have in the past, it’s time we actually dealt with these monsters head-on.

The signposts we pass every day all point the same direction and reverberate the same sentiment.

It’s time for a change.

Why Your Voice Matters

We’re not overtly political. We know how divisive it can be, and we’re all about bringing men together to better themselves. But dire times require a bold response.

To be a young person 10 or 15 years ago meant living was relatively easy, and there was never much need to take interest in politics, much less vote, as long as the train stayed on the tracks and kept making all the stops. Life problems at 21 were generally insignificant and could be solved with a hug or a couple of Excedrin. We’re not on the tracks anymore, though. This train started skipping stops a long time ago, now we’re plowing through the desert on coal fumes with no switch lever in sight to change course.

Not until November 3.

Much of the burden falls on young people, a generation being deprived that tranquil blossoming and carefree living many of us had the privilege of. It’s on them to be the most active of us all, which makes for symmetrically unprecedented responses to unprecedented times. But really, it’s on all of us.

More than 100 million people.

If we want a brighter day, we’ve got to make a change, we’ve got to do a lot better. You may think your vote is small and meaningless, but you couldn’t be more wrong. How, you ask?

We may live with many antiquated systems, including our electoral one. Analysts suggest that a win in the popular vote for a new candidate wouldn’t suffice. It could take as much as a six-percent lead to win in the electoral college. So if we want a chance at even beginning to address any of the many problems on our doorsteps, every voice is actually quite large by that perspective.

And when that is done, we still have much work ahead. But none of it will be possible if we allow this brakeless locomotive to continue on this offroad misadventure.

Life After Quarantine: Who Will You Be When We See Each Other Again?

We’re no longer living in anticipation of a climate crisis, rather we’re hiding in safe spaces from it. Our west coast is on fire, our hurricane regions swirling out of control and when the two get together, fire tornados and heat lightning could rival a fireworks show had it not been canceled over a crippling virus and racial divide spanning across the whole country. Countless people are losing homes, firefighters are losing their lives and homeless people are stuck with the air quality of a jet engine.

There’s not one man who doesn’t feel the heat of this moment. Whether you’re being assaulted daily or torched by empathy, no one is excluded from this fight. In the past, our candidates have been variations of two evils or parades of political propaganda, but this time, it’s much more cut and dry. This is a battle of the soul, both individually and collectively — a good old battle of good versus evil.

Are you satisfied with this constant madness or do you desire a night of anxiety-free sleep? Does wearing a mask feel like an assault on your livelihood or can you stick it out if it saves lives? Are you threatened by the idea of equality or does it pierce your soul to watch others in pain? Are you racist or are you anti-racist? It’s all very simple if you take a moment to consider what’s on the table.

We’re not telling you who you should vote for. That’s what your head and heart are for. But we are saying there’s never been more need for you — yes, YOU — to step forward, have discussions and make decisions, not just for yourself but those around you and those coming after.

Just remember — more than 100 million people.

Not this time. Not on November 3.

Be there or be without a reason to complain if nothing changes.

Check out our Man Enough episode “Adapting” with Terrell Owens and Tank Sinatra, hosted by Justin Baldoni.

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